BDSM Lifestyle

I love sucking !!

2018-11-18 - i love licking married rod feeling your massive hands grab the back of my head and just face fuck me !!_anyone else ......

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Mistress

2018-09-15 - I'm a 20 year old female looking for a mistress.

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Orgasm Denial

2018-09-10 - recently i have been getting into denial as a sub, but i’m definitely curious about how other doms and subs feel about it, and whatever they get out of it

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Looking for a Dom

2018-07-13 - Hello. I am 25 years old who is seeking an older/younger online Master/Mentor. I am considered to be sexy, masculine and sissy. Fit body and a bit hairy in good shape. I love the mental submission, art, and overall awesomeness. I will not do webcams or skype so please do not ask. I do have erotic photos I will share if we become friends. I am not looking for a one time thing or someone just wanting a sub to get them off. I am looking for an ongoing relationship for online only A Dom who is a REAL Dom, and if you are a real Dom you know what I mean by that statement. Not a player, switch. So hit me up if you think you might be interested or need to know more and have questions please contact me through here by email. Thank You for your time

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BDSM Movies anyone??

2018-07-12 - Okay so in need of movies or anything else that have a BDSM edge to them. Trying to gain some more knowledge and a wider berth.. & also trying to expand my horizons a bit. So far I've seen these: The Secretary Walk All Over Me The Pet Exit To Eden Are there any more movies/documentaries/music vids/ etc.?

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Sloppy or Not

2018-07-04 - ok, so i’m unique to this. but i think giving a blowjob can be like the first impression of when the person meets you. a lot of people don’t think how to suck a tool actually awesome. when you suck it, you have to feel it getting nice and hard in your mouth. for me i am a testicles person. i like them nice and round, so when i deep throat, i can stick my tongue out and lick them.i know a blowjob should consist of a lot of slob. you must keep it nice and wet, just like a clit._edited to undo ad information_bard - group mod

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Cock size

2018-07-04 - everything is everyones preference on dick size? i like cocks inbetween 5-8 inches im still practice my throat to one day being throat shagged like a champ and take larger size cocks. tell me why you love those sizes cause for me i like that challenge on larger cocks to keep pushing myself to take more in my throat. this is for men and woman lets hear everything you you've got to say.

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Rope play learning

2018-05-14 - hi all. so i’ve recently discovered rope play and i very much enjoyi it with my dom._however i’d wouod also like to learn how to use ropes to switch with him._please help as i’m not sure where to go to find out about this._thank_s x

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Easily bruising

2018-05-14 - at occasions i'm surprisingly submissive, and enjoy too much force, but am very easily bruised. their definitely hard to cover up too.. something i could do that won't leave a bruise, or is it just a matter of being tender in those uncovered areas?

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Slave contract?

2018-05-14 - hey. i would like to think everything a slave's contract is and if this is accustomed in a d/s relation. i have a magnificent idea but i'm unsure.

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Preference of Pubic Hair Style

2018-05-14 - i have a question about preferences. do you shave? trim? let it grow naturally? wax?_for me i have to wax and like the sensation of no hair. i do think that a lot of people have unique opinions on this though and i'd love to hear your thoughts on it._moderator note: thread title edited for clarity

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Pdx blowjobs?

2018-05-14 - any incredible women in the portland region like to give head?_i have a nice thick knob if so..

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Married blow job?

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Looking for a blowjob

2018-05-14 - i’m in georgia for a few night would love a gal to give me a blowjob. unquestionably more message me if interested

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Ball Greezy is speaking for BJ lovers worldwide

2018-05-14 - i’m well aware that this isn’t a music or hip-hop website. yet if you’re inside listening music while getting your rod sucked like i do then keep reading._ball greezy recently freed a project titled “bae day 2” and on this project there’s a track titled “do me baby.”_the first verse of “do me baby” is about eating puxxy but the second verse is where the magic happens. check the lyrics out below..._i don’t know about you but...

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Sexy Sub Seeking Discreet Online Master

2018-04-30 - Hello. I am an older submissive at 54 seeking an older ( preferably at least 40) experienced online Master/Mentor. I am considered to be sexy, fun and energetic. I weigh about 125 pounds, blue eyes, 5'6 athletic and in good shape. I love the outdoors, photography, riding horses and camping. I will not do webcams or skype so please do not ask. I do have erotic photos I will share if we become friends. I am not looking for a one time thing or someone just wanting a sub to get them off. I am looking for an ongoing relationship for online only I seek a Master who wants and desires only ONE sub as I do not share. A Dom who is a REAL Dom, and if you are a real Dom you know what I mean by that statement. Not a player, switch or she male. I do not play with other females. I am strictly one on one. So check out my profile and if you think you might be interested or need to know more and have questions please contact me through here by email. Thank You for your time Miranda

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Help with punishment ideas

2018-04-08 - I have a relation which has gone on for some months and I've previous punished him with some spanking which has done it nicely previously. However during the last two months he has broken more rules and more frequently than previous and I feel that some new punishments are required to teach him his place. The infringements which he has broken several times during the last months includes: lying, swearing, masturbating and cumming without permission, I've thought about corner time or stress position, but what is the best positions and how long should he stay in position? I've also thought about spanking him more but are there any ways to make it worse and how many swats with the riding crop? Mouthsoaping is something which I've looked into but what is the best way to do it with liquid hand soap (it's as safe as possible) and for how long to do the soaping and keeping the soap in mouth, should he be allowed to rinse? Other things I've thought about is some sort of anal punishment with a hairbrush handle or my fingers, but how should I do it, would soap or hot sauce be able to be used as lube for extra punishment? Could hot sauce be used in other ways as punishment, except for eating? Basically give me any ideas you got both for now and for future use. I know that his main kinks are messy stuff and crossdressing hence why I won't punish him with that.

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Prolonged numbness and disorientation after play: Problem?

2018-03-25 - During play (and even with just rough sex) I love to be loud, scream, pant, the whole "wake up all your neighbours" thing, which leads to me hyperventilating a lot. In the beginning of a session this isn't a problem, but as time passes it moves from a sort of being-high feeling to a complete spatial disorientation, accompanied by lack of balance and numbness in my hands/forearms and feet. It becomes so strong at times that it takes me more than 5minutes to be able to sit upright, even longer to stand up and walk straight. I was wondering if this kind of reaction happens to anybody else, or if you have any hints that this could have important health impacts (mostly due to the increased oxygen concentration in the brain).

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cuckolding

2018-02-08 - I am into cuckolding. It is sexy and hot to go bull hunting with my sub and than start with a nice massage and my sub is tied up next to the bed. What is your turn on about cuckolding? 

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Ruined Orgasm question

2018-02-05 - After a number of years having my releases controlled, my key holder finally gave me a ruined orgasm. I was expecting to feel as I heard a ruined orgasm would be, I would get relief on my aching balls but still be very horny. It's been 5 days caged but I'm still not feeling overwhelming desire to please her. Has anyone else experienced this? Is the only answer not to have ruined orgasms?

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Self aftercare?

2018-02-05 - Playtime with my Master got really intense yesterday. I was feeling fine until I got home and then I physically felt (and still feel) like I got hit by a truck. No subdrop as I feel fine emotionally. What are some ways I can give myself some self aftercare to perk myself back up?

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Be afraid when you know an evil is sadist plotting

2018-02-05 - The signs! *Plotting in secret *The grinning *More secret plotting *The giggling *More secret plotting *Teaming up with other Doms and Sadists *More secret plotting. What to do when a sadist is plotting! Be afraid be very afraid, you don't know what evil thing they are plotting to do to you. Don't flee from them your letting them win Hide the fact your very afraid showing you're afraid will let them win Just go along with what they are doing. What if this advise I have given you doesn't work YOUR FUCKED!!!

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Wondering If I Am The Only One....... House in Order

2018-01-31 - You know the truth of the matter is, you never know when you are going to get a piece of knowledge that truly works to start changing the way you think. Not long ago I was having a conversation with someone who I consider a good friend. They were speaking about how they had just taken their kids to their grandparents house and had a great time but on the way home one of the children asked their mother "How come it always seems like Grandma and Grandpa never fight". Needless to say this led to a discussion later that night between the parents. That really hit me and then I started thinking about some of the things I have run into on in the BDSM community, this site over the year I have been involved and other sites. As most of you know I am not the most prolific poster. Nor am I the kind of person who is going to just start a topic out of the blue. But after a year here I have seen a consistency and I just had to vent. I worked long and hard for my title of Master as many of us that have been in lifestyle for a at least 5 or more years have. And I was always taught on my way up that there was a standard that you lived up to when you carried that title. One of the things that was most important was to always have "your house in order". Before you can exercise a full power exchange relationship with another person. Before you can take on the responsibility of having someone TRUST you with their mind, body and soul. You have to be able to trust yourself with your own. It means that if you are in a relationship, you need to make sure that first one is solid and that you have established ways to talk before you go back to training or trying to expand your presence as a Master or Mistress. Even the best of us make mistakes, take risks and sometimes have relationships that don't go the way we want. But I think the true measure of how effective one is as a Master or Mistress is how those people relate with you after they are no longer a part of your lifestyle life or family. And how your lifestyle family treats them. None of us are perfect, but as Master's and Mistress's we have a responsibility to those that we proudly call our subs or slaves to work hard at trying to achieve that perfection. Am I there. No. But I just don't know if everyone still believe's this way that carries the title of Master or Mistress. So that leads to this vent and the obvious can of worms it is going to open. But I would like to know who else might agree that the community seems to maybe have lessened what we are looking for out of someone we call Master or Mistress.

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Dom women and cuckold men

2018-01-29 - Do you like being the Dom and cuckolding your man? Do you have him lick you clean?

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Your favourite kink?

2018-01-29 - So, I was thinking, different people have different kinds of fetishes and kinks, but what's your favourite?

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Come introduce yourself and tell us a lil about you.

2018-01-29 - Hello A/all... please introduce yourself and tell us a lil about yourself, how long you've been in the lifestyle or if your new what brought you into the lifestyle.

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Orgasm control and denial

2018-01-28 - I have been very sexually active for a long time. But BDSM has only become an interest recently. In many stories and video the Submissive must ask for permission to Cum. I question if this is possible. When I am ready it is going to happen. How is a Submissive Trained not to cum without permission? I thought I had posted this a few days ago, but I guess not. If I have please excuse me.

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One bar prison

2018-01-15 - Just read a story about a one bar prison. Does that actually work? Is it uncomfortable, does it hurt or not? Anyone ever tried it?

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male orgasam denial

2018-01-09 - Does anyone practice male orgasam denial. My wife & I have entered a wife led relationship & one of her request is that she decides when & if I should have an orgasam. We still have intercourse but she has me stop befor I finish. She has plenty of orgasams but as of yet I have had none. Any thoughts on this practice

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Topics to avoid with non lifestyle friends/playing with others.

2018-01-05 - Sort of along the lines of dos and don'ts. One thing I really appreciate about my mistress is that she won't order me not to talk to someone. But she might tell me to avoid certain topics. I guess this is for both her and my protection. I can tell you she had to punish me for playing with someone I should not have and for wearing another's collar. I guess this is normal. What have your experiences been like in those situations and is there any advice in order for me to not to repeat those mistakes? Thanks in advance.

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Small penis

2017-11-18 - Does a small penis make you a good cuckold/slave.

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Games we play.

2017-11-14 - One of the things I like to do is play games of all sorts. Also as many know, I'm a domme. Things can become quite interesting when you combine these two passions. I've started this thread with it in mind that we could share various games we play with our subs or dominant figure in our lives. Seductive Sevens

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I am intrested

2017-11-09 - i am interested in learning more about it all. I have a general idea. but always ready to learn more

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Looking for Daddy/Dom/Master

2017-11-09 - Im looking for someone kind of young, that will be my daddy/dom. Im a very innocent little girl/sub but I love to be naughty so Daddy will punish me. I love cute stuff and to be called baby girl, princess, etc. I love to dress up in pink and girly things. I love to be Daddy's little girl and please Daddy. Personal Message me if your interested.

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Domestic Discipline

2017-10-23 - My name is Princess and I have lived DD for 20 years. I set up a DD Network as I know how hard it can be to meet others into the lifestyle. Join Domestic Discipline Life Worldwide FREE A friendly community where you can meet others into the lifestyle Princess x

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funniest thing your Dom/me has said to you

2017-10-23 - *Please post with permission if you need it, not worth risking a punishment* This is meant to be funny not malicious so if that is your intent please refrain... Just curious..what is the funniest thing your Dom/me has said to you. This hurts me as much as you....um...no..it's my arse that is burning not yours....

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Looking for a sub.

2017-10-23 - I'm certainly not new to this site, or to being a Dom, but its been awhile and I need to get back into the swing of things! Applications open now!

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Can you teach someone to be Dominate?

2017-10-23 - Is it possible to teach someone who is naturally submissive or shy to be dominate at least in the bedroom? Thoughts?

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piercings

2017-10-23 - My sub recently ahd her belly pierced. We are considering having either her nipples done or her lips. Can anyone comment on the relative pain and soreness afterwards?

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Advice on going to a munch gathering

2017-10-23 - I have two main questions, Firstly, even though I have made contact with the organisers, how will someone be treated if they don't live the LS 24/7 but want to attend to progress deeper into the LS. Secondly, it's far from home and I thought of going alone first time, I aussume its a safe event but yes I have my concerns, is there anything I should look out for? any advice at all would be appreciated.

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pics or quotes pertaining to littles

2017-10-23 - Hope I can post. If thread allowed feel free to add. As always, nothing inappropriate..

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A new adventure.

2017-10-23 - Our very first no hold's bared spanking session with finely an empty house, I think I'm in trouble. Wench asked for and took more than imagined. Impressive. Hand, crop, flogger. She has such a glow.

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munch

2017-10-23 - in looking for a bdsm munch meeting and im wondering the types of cloths that a submissive man would wear.

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weirdest place you found bdsm toys?

2017-10-23 - where is the weirdest place you found quality bdsm toys? mine is at a costume store. I found a great cat o nine tails that my master and i both love.

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Once a switch, always a switch?

2017-10-23 - Excuse me, but I'm looking for some education here. Is a switch always a switch, throughout their BDSM lives or is there a certain point where they find what they like and decide to be either sub or Dom/Domme permanently? I know this may sound a bit ignorant and trollish, but I'm genuinely interested in the psychology of a switch and if it's possible for someone who switches to fully commit to being either sub or Dom/Domme.

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Two Questions

2017-10-23 - Just for some clarification and please frogive me if this sounds really dumb. 1) How do I ask my mistress/owner for clarifaction of some of her rules without feeling like I am second guessing her? 2) Is it the norm for mistresses or owers to have a list of those who they approve of regarding playing or flirting with?

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new guy looking for female dom

2017-10-23 - I've never done anything like this but have a secret interest in have a woman control me. Please message me. Don't be shy ladies. I'm new but very opened minded

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Catalog of BDSM Activities

2017-10-23 - Is there a good online resource that lists all known bdsm activities associated with each of the three branches of bdsm? These branches are: * bondage and discipline * dominance and submission * sadomasochism I find the first two categories have a lot of overlap. I would like to find a comprehensive resource that helps me to think about types of activities within each domain. I also think that list would be a great tool for partners to help "type" each other and discover where their shared interests are. If someone has these resources please share the URL(s).

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Sincere Male seeks online Mistress

2017-10-23 - Greetings Im Mike and i have a keen interest in finding a Mistress, I desire to be owned by her and serve her, I have no real experience so a Mistress who is patient would be ideal as I am keen to learn and dedicate my life on lush to being her bitch... I have a few kinks / Fetishes but haven't had the opportunity to put these into practice Thanks in advance Mike

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Why dominate?

2017-10-23 - Serious question. I see the word dominate a lot on this site used as a noun but in the English language it's a verb, a person is a dominator. Is this an Americanism, a Lushism or a BDSMism

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Sub Space and intelligence

2017-10-23 - https://modemworld.me/ds-essays/finding-space-part-1-subspace/ My Mistress is a good and caring one, and she was concerned about my self care. For that reason she assigned me some homework to make sure that I was taking proper care of myself. In particular I was told to investigate sub space and make sure that in the aftermath of our sessions I was in a safe place. This speaks well of her, and is part of the real love that binds us together I am not really part of the BDSM community per se, I am living in two relationships, a vanilla one with my husband, and a deeply submissive one with my Mistress. I have a very challenging and successful career that requires a very very finely tuned expression of myself and as a result many of the stresses that I develop require release and the more extreme stresses are best released in more extreme ways. Due to my own nature, profession, and background, pain and I are on life long good terms, so it doesn't bother me the way it seems to bother those that don't live with it in their daily lives. Pain is a bit like tax, not my favorite part, but expected to be somewhere in the transaction for everything worth having. So doing my reading on Sub Space, I read about the trance like euphoria (check), the dimming of awareness (ummmm, no, kind of really really paying attention), and the dumbing down, the loss of intellect (what the ACTUAL FUCK?). Lets cover a couple of fundamental assumptions that are the bedrock of my Mistress and my relationship 1-We love each other 2-We respect each other as human beings 3-We are not ashamed of what we want 4-What brings joy is an act of love, however it may look to outsiders 5-We care about all of each others needs So I am a needy, needy person with my Mistress. I know I need her in ways that make addiction look like kiddie pool with water wings next to shark week. She has a matching need to be needed. Both of us are really careful to make sure we are not intruding into other areas of each others lives or impacting other important relationships. As madly obessive as we are, we so far are colouring inside the lines and actually strengthening each others standing relationships by allowing us to love the people we are with for what they mean to us, without the resentment about the needs they cannot meet. I am 90% submissive with my Mistress. 10% Dominant when she hungers to see my beast offleash. I am probably more brutal than she is when dominant as my beast is new to sex as an outlet, which is why outside of the deep trust between my Mistress and myself I could never, ever trust that aspect of myself in any sexual setting. Its good at violence, but the giving of pleasure rather than the shattering of bodies is very new for that aspect of myself, and one I will only explore with my Mistress. As a submissive I am about 60% focused on service to my Mistress. I mean doing things for her in any way gives me pleasure, whether it is massaging her or doing her dishes, serving her in any capacity makes me hot. 40% of my focus as a submissive with my Mistress is pretty demanding, requiring her to show her mastery of my through "taking" me (we use safe words, but for both of us the idea I am taken without consent being asked is part of the deep sensuality of the act), by humiliating, degrading or physically abusing me. OK, now here is the thing, physical abuse must cause pain to illicit pleasure for me. If you simulate whipping me, I will simulate giving a damn. That being said, to feel a sting when you move in your clothes the next day is to be reminded of a night of passion and wild sexual abandon, that is a positive. To be damaged, hurt, less able to function in any way the next day means you actually were abused. That is wrong. When we play, and my Mistress is humiliating and abusing me, I do feel a euphoria, a transcendent ecstasy. I am not growing less aware of what is going on around me or with my body, I am hyperaware of what is going on. I am choosing to be helpless, choosing to be broken by my Mistress, choosing to let her tear me down and make me beg her for further degradation. I face each choice fully aware of what it means. This is the GLORY of our relationship. Once collared I am not a mindless bimbo, I am her submissive bitch, and my limits are way, way out there with her. Each new act of punishment, humiliation, and degradation is fully understood by both of us. I am not helpless and carried away by the moment. I am choosing at ever turn to put my neck beneath her foot. I look up into her eyes and swallow as she pees in my mouth because I love her; because I need to submit that deeply and abjectly as much as she needs to see me begging on my knees, drinking her piss. Both of our needs are being met. This is what respect and love look like. Giving to the one you love what they need most to feel valued, cherished, and accepted as they are. Submitting does not require stupidity. 90% of sex is in the mind, and with any sort of fetish play, this is perhaps even more true. If you are someone who enters bimbo head space during your submission, then you need a really good dom, or you could get badly screwed up or hurt. I don't think its required or even enhances anything to let go your mind during sex. Let go your control, let shame, fear, pain become not things to be feared, but savoured. Let each new command thrill you as you decide to obey; let each new layer of helplessness be tested and despair fill you as you let your mind grasp how physically helpless you have let yourself be made. Why would you want to miss that by tuning out? If something passes from pain to "holy shit real damage" My safe word rolls off my lips and my dearest loving Mistress makes sure I am well, safe, and cared for. If I ever dont' feel 100% safe or OK with things, my word rolls off my lips and we slam to a halt. The freedom my awareness gives my mistress is total. For I will speak my word at the slightest danger of real physical and mental harm; if she has not heard it, reguardless of how extreme our play is, she will drive further. We both need that, and only her trust I WILL NOT EVER let her harm me lets her be free to explore the darkest areas of both our desires. If I were to tune out when we played, she would only be able to take baby steps into the shadows, and check me afterwards to make sure I was really OK. Sub space is not mindless, not for me. Sub space is ecstatic, orgasmic, liberating slavery. Subspace is where my Mistress chains run not simply to my neck but to my soul. Our minds are both alive, entwined and on fire. We experience every moment deeply, not dreaming through and missing half of it. Maybe I am doing it wrong and everyone else is right. Cool for them. We are happy with what we have, and will continue as we have begun.

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Are submissives very quiet people?

2017-10-23 - What is your experience when it comes to the personality of the submissive?

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Furniture

2017-10-23 - Where is a great furniture place to purchase a spanking bench. Something that could be used for more than spanking.

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A Dominate's thoughts on being a responsible Master

2017-10-23 - I have not always been the Master, Dominate and Daddy Dom I am today. It’s been a journey, a transformation. Not of who I am, but a realization of whom I’ve always been, of who has been inside me all along. It was pointed out to me, at first, by a friend, a submissive. By sending me various articles and research, she showed me that I was a Dominate. This helped me understand who and what I was, but I had no idea what to do with the knowledge or how to handle it. Through circumstances I won’t expand upon at this time, I was steered toward a Maestro for training in the lifestyle. I learned a lot in a relatively short period of time. I learned that to be a good Master, one needs to understand the submissive. To truly understand a submissive, it is optimal to take the roll of a submissive. As a student, I submitted to my Teacher. I studied and I learned. Today, I am Master to my baby girl, Nordic_Pixie. Even with all the training, I am still learning. She teaches me daily about submissives and their needs. She makes me extremely happy as a Master. With all this, there is still more I yearn for. When in chatrooms with my baby girl, I observe and learn more. I watch the people and the conversations. There is much to see, ones that are lonesome looking for a connection and some that are players looking for their next orgasm. There are those interested in kinky sex both giving and receiving and there are the role-playing Doms and subs that are just playing the BDSM game. And, of course, there are the true Dominates and submissives. All are good in their own right, but there is a problem I keep seeing within the BDSM realm. Being Dominate comes with a great deal of responsibility. If you have been gifted the submission of a slave, sub or little, you need to cherish it, know it is a gift and that it can be taken away at any time. The true power in a BDSM relationship is in the ability to retract one’s submission. Therefore, the power is and always will be in the hands of the sub. In most cases, it is also the sub that sets the limits in the relationship. When submitting, the submissive gives the Dominate the power to destroy his or hers very being and, at the same time, trusting that the Dom does not. As I observe these rooms, I feel a deep need to support and help others to live responsibly in BDSM if this is the path chosen. One should know there is a fine line between a BDSM lifestyle and abuse. Because of the mere definition of BDSM, sadly it draws abusers. After saying this and with what I have seen, I would like to advocate for a responsible BDSM lifestyle to those who want to live within it, offering to stand up for those in need and to help educate those that would desire to know more. I’d like to act, either as an individual or with others to help answer questions, make suggestions or guide a person to a better understanding of BDSM. My hope is that all participating in BDSM are educated in the difference between true BDSM and abuse and understand the responsibility that comes with the lifestyle. I invite all thoughts, ideas, counter points and questions.

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CBT

2017-10-23 - Do any ladies out there have any experience in this? if you have was it exciting for you? if you havent had any experience, is it something you would try?

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What kind of little are you? (quiz)

2017-10-23 - Here is a quiz...it was rather fun....well I quite enjoyed it.....happy quizzing The little Quiz it gave me amazing results....quite accurate I might add. What kind of Little are you? Your Result: Princess You are Daddy's little Princess!!!!! Your daddy adores you and spoils you rotten, because you melt him everytime you walk (or crawl) :) into the room! Result Breakdown: 84% Princess 50% Pumpkin 34% Angel 16% Brat 16% Schoolgirl

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What Kind of Daddy/Dom are you?

2017-10-23 - in the little quiz some one asked if there was a quiz for Daddy's so I went and found one. http://www.gotoquiz.com/what_kind_of_daddy_dom_are_you

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Online to Real Life

2017-10-23 - I was with my Master for a while and it ended up not working. I met Him here on Lush and I'm curious to know... Is it possible to have a virtual relationship and have it transfer in a real life relationship? I find it easier, to meet people here who share more of my interests, for example I can't go out and ask a guy if their into BDSM very easily. Should I just get out and meet people nonetheless?

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Help!!!

2017-10-23 - Okay I'm in a very difficult situation...I'm recently divorced and this girl is recently broken up with we have known each other for a couple years, and even messed around n college, but never had sex. Now we are talking again and both of us are interested in BDSM and want to try it out, but don't know how it will work this there is mutual feelings for each other. Please help I'm a dom n she wants to be a sub any advice will help

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Are you on Fetlife?

2017-10-23 - I'm just curious...how many of you on Lush are also Fetlifers?

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Looking for a mistress between ages of 18-40

2017-10-23 - Hi i'm 18 and from Dublin, Ireland and a complete sub who is looking for a dom who is interested in becoming a mistress! I'm 6'1", short brown hair, blue eyes broad shoulders, lightly toned and I have a 7.5", uncut, shaven cock. If you are interested message me. Hope to be serving you in any way I can to please you! Yours Completely alion

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safe word

2017-10-23 - what is a "safe word"?

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A Little Something

2017-10-23 - I'd like a little advice, to more people experienced if the lifestyle please. I am a slave, my Master and I live very far apart from each other for the time being. I am wonder if it is appropriate for me to ask my Master if he could send me something, it doesn't have to be anything elaborate, I just want to feel closer to Him, to be reminded that I am Him. Thank you for responding if you do :).

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When your dom/sub relationship becomes more

2017-10-23 - Good morning. I have not been posting here lately. I had a quick question. Whenever I talk with my mistress lately the subject has become more vanilla. Yes we still talk about what is going on in the Lifestyle but not as much. I wonder if this means she wants to take our relatonship to the next level or is she tiring a bit of bieng my mistress? Thanks in advance.

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Liquid latex

2017-10-23 - Hi everyone, Just looking for experiences and testimonials I should know about liquid latex. I would love to try it soon and I have a friend of mine who is starting out with it. If anyone could tell me safety tips that would be great!

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Wanting to learn more about BDSM

2017-10-23 - After coming to this site I realized that reading some of the BDSM stories really turns me on. I also am incorporating BDSM into one of my series and wanted a little more in depth understanding of bondage from people who really enjoy it.

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any subs, male or female that are masochistic?

2017-10-23 - Just curious. Thank for looking. I don't know a lot about this but I know I deny myself things. Things I deserve and am worthy of.

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gags and safe words

2017-10-23 - I plan on using gags in the future and my partner brought up a good question. How is she supposed to let me know to stop if she is tied up & gagged? the restraints prevent her from moving to push me off and the gag prevents her from saying the safe word. I don't want to keep going if she really wants me to stop but I'm not sure how to go about her letting me know Any and all help would be awesome

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