Opinions on "Male Lesbian"?


So this is just a general thought gathering post.

I want to know what all of you ladies (Homosexual and Heterosexual alike) think about the idea of a "Male Lesbian."
This doesn't mean a man who is simply turned on by lesbians, or who is interested in a gender change.
This is only about a man who wishes he had been born a woman, but knows that he would then still be attracted to other women.
As it is, he might even be uninterested in sex with a woman simply because he is so "turned off" by his own masculine role.

To clarify:

"Specifically, a "male lesbian" is a heterosexual man who wishes
that he had been born a woman, but who (even if he had been a woman)
could only make love to another woman and never to a man. Unlike
the transsexual, the "male lesbian" does not feel himself to be "a woman
trapped inside the body of a man". Moreover, none of the love-shy men
studied for this research entertained any wishes or fantasies of any kind
pertinent to the idea of obtaining a sex change operation. All wanted to
keep their male genitalia; all wanted to remain as males."

So my question for you homosexuals is this:
Would you tend to sympathize with this so called male lesbian, or on the other side, would you find them repulsive? Is their physical gender too much of an obstacle for them to be considered a lesbian?

And for you heterosexuals:
If you knew that a man identified as a male lesbian, would that change how you see him and how you would approach relationships with him?
Smokey (guest) 2018-01-05

Oh, wow! How interesting and surprising you'd bring this up. As a matter of fact, this describes me to a tee. I know you asked for ladies' opinions, but, well, I am one on the inside. I simply still inhabit my male body. But as it turns out, I've written an essay on this very subject at Lit. I don't think it's been published here (yet), but they've put most of my lesbian material on the site since I granted permission. This is my first post on AR, and I'm unsure if we can post links in these, but let's see...I'm sure someone will tell me if I shouldn't do so.


Since this is such a major and conscious mind-consuming part of my identity, I felt I had to respond. Will reply back again if you so desire. Cheers! —Smokey

Smokey125 2018-01-05

Oops, just realized I hadn't logged in when I posted that. This is my real account and pic. —S

Jazz (guest) 2018-03-18

They're called Straight men with a fantasy of pursuing relationships to a selected minority group of women who experience 0% attraction to them. Just because a Straight man is feminine doesn't make him a woman not all women are feminine and SEXuality is based on SEX not on invisible gender feels. So all female homosexuals would find the idea of being romantically involved with a biological male repulsive hint cause Lesbian is a SEXuality. There are tons of Straight women why date such a small community of people? Does the idea of one Lesbian not being interested in Straight men hurt your feelings?

Jazz (guest) 2018-03-18

Only women can be Lesbians. Duh.


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